The Start

This marks the beginning on my journey in trying to conceive as a solo mom by choice (SMBC). Not many in my family know yet of this journey, only my mom and sister. I've told a couple of friends, and all have been very supportive. 

In my searches it has been hard trying to find not only blogs of vegan pregnancies but also as a SMBC. I'm 35 years-old and have dated a couple of times, one that lasted nearly a year. Dating now during a pandemic has been difficult, or rather, non-existent for me. I work full-time and go to university part-time and the thought of also trying to cultivate a relationship in order to form the family I truly want...it doesn't feel that time is on my side to go that route.

My hopes for this blog is to give another perspective of a woman trying to form a loving family in her own way. I understand that some have there opinions on this choice, but know that this child will be wanted and loved immensely. This choice wasn't taken lightly. I know there will be challenges, but I'm also lucky in knowing that I have family and friends that are supportive in this choice. 

November is three months out from when I would like to start trying to conceive (TTC). I've already been to a fertility doctor and have done all the testing needed, and physically all looks okay. Genetically though I'm a carrier of a few genes, a major one being a silent carrier for spinal muscular atrophy. I will further talk to a genetic counselor to make sure that when I choose a donor sperm they are not positive for the same genes that I carry. This month I will also start making better food choices, making sure added sugar is near zero, green smoothies in the morning and more freshly cooked dinners. I will also make sure to increase my activity level and exercise at least 30 minutes 3-5 days a week, and hopefully increasing a bit each week. 

I hope to meet others on this journey as we could share experiences with one another.